Judgment....Is actually what I choose over otherwise

Well, your not alone, people mashallah they think I'm superhuman......and for the most part I pretend I can be...but we all fall or just bend a little sometimes. And its not easy to bend or straighten either. Peoples eyes are always ready to see what I do. I am actually watched at school, so at all times I'm on my best behavior ... In a big way I'm grateful for all the judgement because I'm going to get it sooner or later from Rab il 3allameen. I know people say, "dont judge, mind your own business" but to be frank...Let them, in their judgments I will find one of three things (or all three) wisdom, flaw in myself, or flaws in them. Each giving me an opportunity to learn or teach. It brings out the truth that lyes beneath the peoples tongues. If its bad and illogical I enjoy being kind to someone and giving them something they cant lose. wisdom. If I am bad, then I will admit to it, not fight it and correct my flaw....either way its healthy if you make a healthy perspective. If you make it something like making fun of yourself and hurting yourself and punishing yourself or others from criticism you may get. Thats a missed opportunity. Everything that happens to us is noor from Allah, look through his perceptive and you will realize how strong you are, and how beautiful every moment is when its filled with the chance of a good deed.

From the Judgment of others, you can see how they see the world. How they see you. They put their mind amongst yours then you given the advantage of perspective and can then delve into their world and values. When you see someone commenting on some news clip or the weather pay attention to their perspective you will gain so much. People are sensitive fragile creatures that need attention and would love to be figured out, and the ones that play it hard, well they just need it more ;} You can tell alot by the words people use, the way which they speak the gestures they make and the attitude towards something. Really to grow from every moment and person in your life, you have to be aware and taking notice like reading novels and taking notes, highlighting and rereading. Everyone is their own novel, trying to figure them out is you living a life other than your own without wasting time. There is a theme to everyone pick up on it, and its yours. That is golden.